Welcome to my blog. Grams is the name my first grandson gave me and it's stuck. My great loves: My husband, our nine children, twenty five grandchildren, four great grandchildren, my Faith, writing- prose and poetry - and travelling , especially in our camper. My posts are eclectic and I appreciate getting comments. So, please feel free to comment or offer advice on what you would like to to see more of.
Monday, July 6, 2026
You
Wednesday, March 25, 2026
Your Birthday
24th March
558
Another Day.
Without you.
Today is your birthday.
You would have been seventy seven.
You promised we'd get old together, potter around,
help each other, love each other.
But, you left...
You went too early.
I was not ready. Not ready.
I'm still,
Not ready.
No...
Yes, it might be, by some measure of time, quite long,
this eighteen months and twelve days.
And, yes, it is...
However, I want you to know, that,
It's also like you've just left.
I still want to wake from sleep, and
feel you there, beside me .
I still want you to agree, or, not agree,
with all my musings,
to discuss, to make me see everything from,
a different, your, point of view.
I still want us to remember together,
all the many blessings that made up,
Our Life...
I loved that...
Sometimes, do you remember, we would be
crying with joy as we pondered on
God's goodness to us.
No, it's not easy, living without you
beside me.
All those "little" things didn't add up to,
very much in our day to day life,
But, it's those very ordinary things,
even the smallest irritations ,
that I miss the most, and,
would love to have back.
Am i being morbid? Maybe.
Should I just get on living without you?
Yes, surely.
And, I am, I am. I've got lots going on.
Yet, you aren't there, to share...
Sometimes, that feels so heavy.
So very heavy...
Will I feel the same when your next
birthday comes around,
Another year from now?
Saturday, March 21, 2026
Soda Bread 2
Soda Bread
An early summer light casts long, rectangular patterns
Into the small kitchen.
6 a. m. Angelus Bells ring out from the cathedral.
Softly, she mutters the prayer, to herself, as,
she places two sods of turf onto burning briquettes,
in the range.
My grandmother remembers, fondly, how grandad and
John Jo cut the turf, brought it home in the spring,
Turf, that will warm them through bitter winter months.
She sighs, sits the mixing bowl on the wooden,
farmhouse table, adds flour, buttermilk, soda, salt.
No weighing, no hesitating - instinctive, rythmic
Just as my grandmother draws those she loves,
close to her heart,
with tender touch, she forms the soft, supple dough.
She throws it down, onto the floury table,
gently, she kneads - hands worn, knuckles gnarled.
I imagine her life - many hours, many days, many years,
fair weather, or foul.
Work, from dawn to dusk . on the family farm.
Today, the cosy cottage is more manageable.
My grandmother takes a knife, and cuts, ceremoniously,
into the round dough.
If you're near, you'll hear , as she whispers,
"The cross of blessing"
Later, as the sun goes down, the soda bread will be cool,
she will slice it, spread it with butter, a lot of butter,
pile it high on plates.
Family and friends will gather, all united together in this,
timeless tradition:
Soda bread, strong tea, shared stories, stories stored
in the very walls of the cottage,
talk, of what has been, what is, what will be.
There will be laughter , there will be crying,
there will be remembering.
My grandmother , with a tear, in her eye,
will look around, and smile.
All hearts will be full .
Tuesday, March 17, 2026
16 th March 2026
16 th March 2026
A June Morning in The Cottage Soda Bread
An early summer light throws long , rectangular patterns into the small kitchen.
6 am - Angelus bells ring out from the cathedral .
Softly , she mutters the prayer, to herself, as she places two sods of turf onto the glowing briquettes in the range.
My grandmother remembers, with a smile how grandad and John Jo, cut the turf , brought it home from the bog in the spring, turf, that will last the family through bitter winter months.
She sighs, sits the mixing bowl on the wooden farmhouse table, adds flour, salt, buttermilk, soda, no weighing , no hesitating - rhythmic - instinctive.
Just as my grandmother draws those she loves close to her heart, with tender touch she forms the soft, supple dough. She throws it down onto the floury table, Gently, she kneads, - hands, worn, knuckles, gnarled. I imagine her life - many hours, many days , many years, fair weather or fowl - work, from dawn to dusk on the family farm. Today, the cosy cottage is more manageable. My grandmother takes a knife, and, cuts ceremoniously, into the round dough. If you're near you'll hear her whisper, "the cross of blessing." Later, as the sun goes down, the soda bread will be cool, she will slice it, spread it with butter, lots of butter, pile it high on plates, family and friends will gather - all, united together in this timeless tradition - Soda bread, pots of strong tea, shared stories- stories stored in the very walls of the cottage, talk of what has been, what is, what will be There will be laughter,there will be crying, there will be remembering.
My grandmother will smile, with a tear in her eye.
All hearts will be full.
Monday, March 16, 2026
Soda Bread
16 th March 2026
A June Morning in The Cottage Soda Bread
An early summer light throws long , rectangular patterns into the small kitchen.
6 am - Angelus bells ring out from the cathedral .
Softly , she mutters the prayer, to herself, as she places two sods of turf onto the glowing briquettes in the range.
My grandmother remembers, with a smile how grandad and John Jo, cut the turf , brought it home from the bog in the spring, turf, that will last the family through bitter winter months.
She sighs, sits the mixing bowl on the wooden farmhouse table, adds flour, salt, buttermilk, soda, no weighing , no hesitating - rhythmic - instinctive.
Just as my grandmother draws those she loves close to her heart, with tender touch she forms the soft, supple dough. She throws it down onto the floury table, Gently, she kneads, - hands, worn, knuckles, gnarled. I imagine her life - many hours, many days , many years, fair weather or fowl - work, from dawn to dusk on the family farm. Today, the cosy cottage is more manageable. My grandmother takes a knife, and, cuts ceremoniously, into the round dough. If you're near you'll hear her whisper, "the cross of blessing." Later, as the sun goes down, the soda bread will be cool, she will slice it, spread it with butter, lots of butter, pile it high on plates, family and friends will gather - all, united together in this timeless tradition - Soda bread, pots of strong tea, shared stories- stories stored in the very walls of the cottage, talk of what has been, what is, what will be There will be laughter,there will be crying, there will be remembering.
My grandmother will smile, with a tear in her eye.
All hearts will be full.
